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How do i deal with people being jealous of me?

There is this band called one direction (im sure atleast a few people have heard of them)and they have a konsert in my hometown on april the 18th. Everybody at my school is absoloutly in Cinta with one direction (i go to an all girls school), people were crying their eyes out all hari cuz they didnt get tickets to see them..(cuz theyre sold out) Anyway I DID get tickets (i know i berkata theyre sold out, but my parents are disabled and the convention centre always reserve seats for the disabled)and i telah diposkan the message on Facebook that i got tickets (i didnt boast atau anything it was just a statement),anyway i got a whole bunch of komen-komen either saying 'your so lucky' atau 'I dont like anda anymore :(' and those were coming from people who i thought were my friends. :( And even though i explained the circumstances of why i got tickets, people still kept saying mean things, what should i do?
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Shadowmarioking said:
Okay, first off, RELAX. Take a few deep breathes, and try to regain composure. Clear your head, if anda will.

Yes, it appears the people who dikomen are somewhat jealous of you. But, anda know what else they're doing? Overreacting. It's just a concert; it's not the end of the world. Just because they won't get to go at this very moment doesn't mean that they'll never get to go in their lives.

I'd say to ignore the people's jealously and try your best to alih on from the situation. Go to the konsert even. Try your best not to go into detail about it though. Try saying "Oh, the konsert was pretty good" atau "That was an alright tunjuk that they did. I liked it". Too much enthusiasm may make things in this situation worse, so it's best to avoid doing something like "DAT WAS THE BEST! :D I'm so thrilled" atau "AWESOME. I LOVED ONE DIRECTION'S SHOW."

That's all I can say. I did my best to help as well. I'm not so keen on giving out advice.
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