I understand you, i was really shocked too. I also thought that once they found the courage to admit how they feel, they would also get together! But they didnt :( I also cant believe 1.that Booth didnt said that he loved her or that she didnt have to change 2. When he saw they wouldnt be together he said that he must find someone that would love him for 30 or 40 or 50 years, like all he wanted was SOMEONE to love him and NOT BRENNAN to love him. Of course i kind of understand him because he opened his heart and didnt took a response. Anyway it was so heartcrushing but also one of my favourite episodes!!!!