It’s because she still loves him.
And so, she can’t be with Damon YET. “I care about you, which is why I have to let anda go”. I know we are all angry that it’s still “I care about you”, but say she admitted she loves Damon knowing that she’s choosing Stefan (for now) anyway, isn’t that just too cruel? She loves him, but she’s not ENTIRELY in-love with him. She only just acknowledged that she has feelings for him.
Choosing Damon now would seem like a way “to get him out of her system” and she doesn’t want to do that to him. Damon deserves lebih than a woman who still loves another. He deserves someone who will Cinta him wholly; not half-empty atau half-full, but FULLY. She loves him enough to want that for him, which is why she had to let him go. She can’t be selfish; she can’t take advantage of Damon’s love. That would be “too Katherine” and that’s not as a compliment.
Therefore, she’s right to go back to Stefan at the moment. She needs to know if they are still going to work despite everything Stefan did to hurt her and push her away; she needs to know instead of constantly wondering “what if”. Because let’s be honest, Stefan might be a self-righteous ass, but what he did for his brother was one of the reasons for his downfall. Meeting him INSPIRED Elena how to live again and partly the reason why she chose Sefan; not because she owes him (as she mentioned to Matt), but it’s because she has this idea of what Cinta should be, “you should Cinta the person that made anda glad that you’re alive”. Do you? Anyway, no one can tell her what loves is, she needs to figure that out sejak herself.
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In the March 15 Vampire Diaries episode — a flashback to 1912 — Freeman plays Sage, a bloodsucker with ties to the Originals, as well as Ian Somerhalder's Damon. "She [is] really aware of what being a vampire is and owns it," says Freeman, who says it "has been a dream to play a vampire" and that she was "jumping for joy" when she got the part. Sage will also resurface in modern-day Mystic Falls with a murky agenda. "She comes back for good reasons, but she is [out] for herself."
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The House Guest
Even though Elena, Damon, and Stefan and tired of Katherine's constant mind games, they realize that Katherine's knowledge of Mystic Falls history will help them survive. Caroline finds a new way to get Matt's attention after feeling frustrated with their relationship. Alaric reveals some shocking information to Jenna, and Katherine makes a different kind of confession to Damon. Stefan and Bonnie try to convince Jonas and Luka that they should all be working together, but Jonas' lack of trust leads to a violent and intense confrontation.
Even though Elena, Damon, and Stefan and tired of Katherine's constant mind games, they realize that Katherine's knowledge of Mystic Falls history will help them survive. Caroline finds a new way to get Matt's attention after feeling frustrated with their relationship. Alaric reveals some shocking information to Jenna, and Katherine makes a different kind of confession to Damon. Stefan and Bonnie try to convince Jonas and Luka that they should all be working together, but Jonas' lack of trust leads to a violent and intense confrontation.
Ian Somerhalder
