2.Gauge your date’s reaction to you. You'll need to do this quickly as the goodbye-kiss window doesn’t stay open for long. If you’re walking your tarikh utama and they don’t let anda get that close to the door, take this physical distancing as a sign that a goodnight Ciuman isn't such a great idea. If (s)he is eager to get the keys in the door, this too is a bad sign. Other red lights can include clamped lips atau a stubborn refusal to make eye contact. However, there’s a good chance that the signs won’t be as obvious as this. To give yourself the advantage in the moment, learn how to read body language so that anda can act fast and avoid any mishaps. Only make a alih if anda feel all is right.
3.Make a “moment.” Remember that in every goodnight Ciuman scenario, you've got a limited window of opportunity to make your move. Create an "awkward pause" in the conversation. Studies tunjuk that people are uncomfortable with gaps of silence in conversation, so fill it with a smile and get ready to alih in for a kiss.
4.Maintain eye contact. If your tarikh steadily returns your gaze, consider it an invitation to smooch. If (s)he tries to maintain eye contact but breaks it before anything can happen, chalk it up to nervousness and try to create another “moment” if it isn’t too late.
5.Move in for the kiss. Keep it simple, especially if this is your first Ciuman with your date. This means no tongue atau special moves; just turn your head slightly to the side, lean in slowly, and rock his atau her world! anda can place your hand on the small of their neck if anda wish.
If your tarikh is enthusiastic, anda may be able to turn the simple smooch into a longer, lebih involved kiss. However, only do this if anda feel very confident about the cues you’re being given; when in doubt, err on the side of Ciuman too little, as it’s better to leave them wanting lebih than to make them regret Ciuman anda in the first place.
If anda get the dreaded cheek turn, briefly apologize, laugh it off, and leave with your dignity intact.
6.Repeat if desired, atau if anda feel your tarikh getting into it. This may lead to being invited inside, but don't count on it
Tips
-If it seems like your tarikh is waiting for a while to go inside, Ciuman her. She wants anda to.
-If anda feel your tarikh trying to alih away atau say "No," don’t press the issue. Simply ask if (s)he's okay; if the answer is "nothing" atau your tarikh has to think about it, just say goodnight, as your tarikh probably isn’t comfortable enough to admit it’s too soon to kiss. Never force a goodnight Ciuman on someone.
-Add komen-komen such as "Tonight was amazing" atau "I hope we can do this again sometime" (and tunjuk her that anda mean it) to make him/her feel special.
-When you're walking away, give a little glance back - chances are she'll be watching anda go.
-If anda want to be extra cute anda could even Ciuman her hand atau forehead, but be wary of the forehead Ciuman as some girls find it patronizing atau granddad-like.
Warning
-If your tarikh is facing the other way, do not grab his atau her head and turn it to face anda for the kiss. This is pushy and unromantic.
-Be wary of giving a goodnight (or first) Ciuman in front of friends, whether they’re yours atau your date’s; this is meant to be a sweet and private moment, so keep it as exclusive as possible.
-Don't just go around Ciuman anyone, anytime! anda may be charged with sexual assault if anda alih too aggressively.
