Sexuality is such a hot-button issue these days. "Are anda gay? Are anda straight?" But what do these soalan really mean? How can anyone really answer these soalan to the best of their ability, especially when we have people who are well into their fifties and sixties and still haven't figured it out?

I believe it was Alyssa in Chasing Amy who berkata it best: "I came to this on my terms. I didn't just heed what I was taught, anda know? Men and women should be together, it's the natural way - that kind of thing. I'm not with anda because of what family, society, life tried to instill in me from...