This artikel was written sejak Fanpop guest contributor Trina G.
Every now and then we get into relationships that start out awesome but then dwindle into something less than perfect. While it’s perfectly normal to not be perfect, anda have to know when it’s time to let go and alih on.
Sometimes people change…and sometimes they drag anda into an endless abyss of whiney ooze and greedy goo, where anda trudge along desperately hoping to escape the insanity. Here are 10 signs the madness won’t end and that it’s time to dump that chump.
1. He Abuses You
If a man abuses you, either physically atau emotionally, anda have to dump him. Abusive men do not change (they don’t know how). Get rid of him now while anda still can. And if anda need help atau someone to talk to, the link is there for anda 24/7.
2. He Never Has Any Money
It’s one thing to work your butt off for some whip-wielding boss, earning minimum wage and never having spare cash for a romantic restaurant, at least your man is working and putting in some effort. It’s another thing if he’s asking anda to pay his rent this bulan because he owed Smelly Lenny some funds from a bet gone sour. Ditch him.
3. He Cancels Your Dates to be With the Guys
Any time your guy spends lebih time cancelling your dates to hang with his buddies than he does actually dating anda it’s time to get rid of him. He’s obviously dating his buddies, not you.
4. He Texts anda at 3AM
If every weekend you’re awoken sejak a text that reads: “Are anda awake, babe? I’m kinda drunk and need a ride home/I’m in the mood” (in less than good grammar), it’s time to ditch him.
5. He Doesn’t Listen to You
Now, to clarify, there’s a difference between him tuning out your incessant nagging (which is normal relationship behavior) and him forgetting that your grandma is in the hospital so anda can’t cook makan malam, majlis makan malam for him tonight. If your guy forgets important events, your kegemaran (and least favorite) foods, your dreams, hobbies, atau (especially) your name…dump him.
6. He’s Unsupportive of Your Dreams
Equally as bad as forgetting your dreams is the guy who couldn’t care less about them. If anda tell him that anda want to be an artist and he tells anda to do something useful with your life instead, then he’s not supportive and anda should dump him.
7. He Flirts With Everyone
I’ll admit, sometimes flirting is a natural habit that most people don’t even realize they have. Still, if every time anda go out he’s giving himself whiplash trying to watch a girl’s behind as she goes by, and then makes a komen about how hot she was, then he doesn’t respect anda enough to keep his eyes to himself and anda should get rid of him.
8. He’s Rude to Your Family
It’s a rare person that loves their partner’s parents. However, no matter how much your city dwelling guy can’t stand your traktor driving redneck mom and dad, he has to be nice to them. There’s absolutely no excuse for being rude to your parents, it’s disrespectful and anda should get rid of him (or let your dad give him the boot).
9. He’s a Loafer
Did your guy stay the night one night and never leave? Have anda been dating three months and he’s living with anda rent free, eating all your chips and playing X-Box all hari while you’re at work? Does he also leave the house a mess and invite his Friends over without telling you? If your guy is the “I just couldn’t get rid of him” guy, then anda need to send him on a pizza run and change the locks while he’s gone.
10. He Cheated on You
If your man cheated on anda one night, regrets it immensely, and has felt horrible ever since, there’s nothing saying he’ll ever do it again. It is possible to alih past a one night stand, depending on the relationship. But, if he’s had a lover for a while, atau numerous affairs, then he’s a chronic cheater and you’re not going to be able to alih beyond that. Get rid of him.
There are plenty of guys out there who will be nice to you, so don’t waste your time on these kinds of guys. Ditch him now and be done!
Every now and then we get into relationships that start out awesome but then dwindle into something less than perfect. While it’s perfectly normal to not be perfect, anda have to know when it’s time to let go and alih on.
Sometimes people change…and sometimes they drag anda into an endless abyss of whiney ooze and greedy goo, where anda trudge along desperately hoping to escape the insanity. Here are 10 signs the madness won’t end and that it’s time to dump that chump.
1. He Abuses You
If a man abuses you, either physically atau emotionally, anda have to dump him. Abusive men do not change (they don’t know how). Get rid of him now while anda still can. And if anda need help atau someone to talk to, the link is there for anda 24/7.
2. He Never Has Any Money
It’s one thing to work your butt off for some whip-wielding boss, earning minimum wage and never having spare cash for a romantic restaurant, at least your man is working and putting in some effort. It’s another thing if he’s asking anda to pay his rent this bulan because he owed Smelly Lenny some funds from a bet gone sour. Ditch him.
3. He Cancels Your Dates to be With the Guys
Any time your guy spends lebih time cancelling your dates to hang with his buddies than he does actually dating anda it’s time to get rid of him. He’s obviously dating his buddies, not you.
4. He Texts anda at 3AM
If every weekend you’re awoken sejak a text that reads: “Are anda awake, babe? I’m kinda drunk and need a ride home/I’m in the mood” (in less than good grammar), it’s time to ditch him.
5. He Doesn’t Listen to You
Now, to clarify, there’s a difference between him tuning out your incessant nagging (which is normal relationship behavior) and him forgetting that your grandma is in the hospital so anda can’t cook makan malam, majlis makan malam for him tonight. If your guy forgets important events, your kegemaran (and least favorite) foods, your dreams, hobbies, atau (especially) your name…dump him.
6. He’s Unsupportive of Your Dreams
Equally as bad as forgetting your dreams is the guy who couldn’t care less about them. If anda tell him that anda want to be an artist and he tells anda to do something useful with your life instead, then he’s not supportive and anda should dump him.
7. He Flirts With Everyone
I’ll admit, sometimes flirting is a natural habit that most people don’t even realize they have. Still, if every time anda go out he’s giving himself whiplash trying to watch a girl’s behind as she goes by, and then makes a komen about how hot she was, then he doesn’t respect anda enough to keep his eyes to himself and anda should get rid of him.
8. He’s Rude to Your Family
It’s a rare person that loves their partner’s parents. However, no matter how much your city dwelling guy can’t stand your traktor driving redneck mom and dad, he has to be nice to them. There’s absolutely no excuse for being rude to your parents, it’s disrespectful and anda should get rid of him (or let your dad give him the boot).
9. He’s a Loafer
Did your guy stay the night one night and never leave? Have anda been dating three months and he’s living with anda rent free, eating all your chips and playing X-Box all hari while you’re at work? Does he also leave the house a mess and invite his Friends over without telling you? If your guy is the “I just couldn’t get rid of him” guy, then anda need to send him on a pizza run and change the locks while he’s gone.
10. He Cheated on You
If your man cheated on anda one night, regrets it immensely, and has felt horrible ever since, there’s nothing saying he’ll ever do it again. It is possible to alih past a one night stand, depending on the relationship. But, if he’s had a lover for a while, atau numerous affairs, then he’s a chronic cheater and you’re not going to be able to alih beyond that. Get rid of him.
There are plenty of guys out there who will be nice to you, so don’t waste your time on these kinds of guys. Ditch him now and be done!
