The main point of the Sex and Sexuality spot is to provide a place for open and honest conversation on the topic of sex. This includes sex education, discussions of sex-related Debat topics (prostitution, contraceptives, pornography), sex tips, sex in art, and asking soalan that anda might be too afraid to ask people who actually know you.
This spot does NOT exist for the following reasons. Any content atau komen-komen telah diposkan that relates to ANY of the following will be reported and removed.
1) Explicit Pornography. There was a porn spot and it got taken down for a reason. Kiddies use this site, and we want to make it friendly to people of most ages. Think of it like the sex ed class anda had in high school/middle school. anda can ask and discuss anything in an exploratory capacity, including exploring the topic of porn, but posting pautan to porn sites atau porn videos, atau uploading pornographic imagery is strictly prohibited.
2) Sexual Suggestions. Unless anda are johnminh atau OhClip, from whom sexual suggestions are not only expected but encouraged, this is not a place to try and pick up dates. Anyone who gives a fanpopper unwanted attention on this spot will be considered sejak me and other members as a sexual predator and will be reported. anda have been warned.
3) Graphic Stories/Literature. lebih likely than not, people will be sharing sexual experiences on this spot. This is encouraged, however when sharing your sex stories, please keep it clean and do not go into graphic detail that belongs in a romance novel. This same rule applies to erotic fiction and poetry. So long as it's contextualized and not explicit, and falls in around a PG-13 rating, then that's fine.
Now I will tunjuk anda a senarai of things that this spot IS for. This spot was created for several reasons. Primarily because, who isn't a peminat of sex? The reasons are as follow:
1) Let's Talk About Sex, Baby. Here is a place where anda can get educated and openly discuss any questions, concerns, atau komen-komen about sex. In this spot, anda are completely allowed to use the following words appropriately: penis, vagina, breasts, anus, sex, and any euphemisms atau cuss words that correspond to those. This is because, if we truly want to claim that we are speaking openly, I feel that we should be allowed to express our papar in the manner in which we are most comfortable. Some people prefer using "dick" instead of penis, while others are uncomfortable with swearing and prefer its anatomical name. This privilege does not extend to insulting people. That will be considered trolling and dealt with accordingly.
2) My Mom Thinks I Still Believe In The Stork. I know several teens are nervous about talking about sex with their family and even their Friends on certain issues. This spot is meant to provide a welcoming and non-judgmental community to help anda through your sexual soalan and problems. From pregnancy to periods, from mammaries to masturbation, we'll love, accept and support anda no matter what your soalan is. anda can be assured of that.
3) Are contraceptives wrong? Is anal sex somehow worse (morally) than oral sex and why? Should prostitution be legal? Any and all sex-related issues/questions are welcome here. Of course, several of these topics have been exhausted over at the Debat spot, but here anda are free to dive deeper into the issue and get to the hati, tengah-tengah of the matter-- sex. It's all about sex. There's a lot of controversy surrounding sex and we need to talk about it openly.
4) I'll Kama Your Sutra. Looking for sex tips? Share them here. atau ask about them here. Think of us as an online Cosmo atau Esquire magazine. I hope that this spot will include a decent mixture of both experienced and inexperienced people so we can learn from each other. Of course, as stated earlier, please keep this in context and do not embellish on the details. Think of it lebih like a manual. "First, anda do this. Then anda do this. And they really like this." That sort of thing. Don't use adjectives to spice it up, please. Bare Bones is fine.
5) Sex is Art. Um... it is! Sex is inspiration for artistic expression, and can sometimes be artistic expression! Of course, please don't post any video of performance artists that are TOO explicit. But performance art relating to sex, such as the Vagina Monologues, is welcome. Just put a rating on it. Also, paintings and sculptures are acceptable. Erotic Fotografi is fine, so long as it's artistic and not overly pornographic.
And there anda have it! The dos and don'ts of the Sex and Sexuality spot. Here, very little is forbidden (explicit porn) and everything in discussion format is completely accepted. Embrace your sexuality and have a ball (or two!)!
