Stefan and Elena

So I know this is supposed to be a selamat, peti deposit keselamatan haven from hearing about Damon, but I have a rant building up and I dont know where else it will be selamat, peti deposit keselamatan to post it.
First off, how many people does he have to kill before I stop hearing "poor Damon"? He is the murderer, not the victim, for crying out loud.
Also,( please dont kill me) I think Damon/Ian is oveerrated. I am not trying to bash him. Obviously he is hot, and he is giving a very good performance. The thing is though that some people are Berlakon like he is the saat coming atau something. Honestly I dont see it.
I Cinta Stefan. I think Paul is also hot, and is also giving a great performance. I can only hope that Kevin and Julie dont follow in LJ's footsteps and *spoiler alert*do what she did to us in Shadow Souls and Midnight.
ok, rant over.

What Is that awful saying? Opposites attract. Metaphysically speaking, opposites repel. And honestly, were fights and constant bickering anything to base a healthy relationship off of? A healthy relationship, the kind that usually leads to the soul mate kind of love, starts off with a solid friendship/Relationship – the one where anda do everything in your power to protect them and keep them happy, even if it means sacrificing your own happiness, standing sejak them when no one else will, not because anda feel anda should, but because anda really and truly believe in him/her, and above all, being so connected that at times anda feel like you're one person – when your thoughts mesh so perfectly that anda finish each other's sentences and know what they're thinking without saying any words.
At least that's my opinion on the matter. This is why I ship Stelena:)