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Why do I get stared at so much sejak the way I dress?

Okay so I like to dress quite Anime sometimes like over the knee socks, bright colours, big massive bows and Bunga in my hair, cute dresses and everyone always gives me weird looks because of the way I dress, why do they do that it hurts me? should I just start dressing lebih boring?
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sesshyz said:
Idk.... if I saw someone dressed like that I'd have to look also. People just don't see dress like that everyday. People might even think you're a... *GASP* weeaboo. And/or hungry for attention. (Massive head-bows? really?)

If that's your style...and anda want to dress that way, fine....more power to ya... but anda need to be able to handle the criticism that goes along with it. People are judgmental, and dressing like that probably doesn't make a best first impression. I'm just being honest.
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Thanks :)
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and yes I do wear massive head-bows, i think they're amazing
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np =)
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faiyah226 said:
anda shouldn't worry about others cause your trying to express yourself and trying to make your own style.don't worry about what others think because its your life.
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Thanks :)
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AcidBanter said:
Don't take it as a negative thing, sometimes when people are looking at anda it's probably cuz they like what you're wearing. Well, that's usually what I think when I look at someone's outfit.

I remember one girl had a victorian style dress, but she had a modern Gothic edge to it, she really suited it.

Just remember it's not a bad thing to turn a few heads.
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Thank anda :) it's just i don't like getting stared at but i don't want to dress any differently and i shouldn't have to
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Then don't. Don't let anybody make anda feel bad about your style. It's yours, not theirs :)
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vampiressJazz said:
I think it's cool anda dress like that :) it's unique, one of a kind. Don't care what others think there probably jealous that anda have the confidence to dress that way.

Dressing how anda want is fine just as long as anda don't dress like your homeless atau a slut.
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Thank anda :) well I don't have confidence, i'm far from it, i just feel comfortable with the way I dress :) it's how I express myself
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Np :) if anda dress how comfortably then it's easier to boost your confidence (:
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terhenetar said:
It depends on how they stare. If anda dress the way anda described, it is only to be expected that people will look at you, simply because they see something out of ordinary. It doesn't necesserily mean that they will stare in a negative and/or judgemental way. It is natural that in a group of, say, 20 people dressed in jeans and t-shirts a person dressed in an 'anime way' will stand out.
So yes, if anda do not want to attract attention anda should dress in a lebih typical way. anda are the only person who can say whether this attraction bothers anda atau not. If it doesn't, keep on dressing the way anda do. :) If it does, well, there is another question: Do people just stare atau do anda notice their negative attitude as well? I'm afraid that there's nothing anda can do about those who do not accept individuality and want everyone to dress all the same, apart from ... ignoring them.
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jester616 said:
I think anda probably have lebih confidence than anda think. It takes guts to stand out. Last tahun my daughter had the same problem at her old school. She's artistic and designs her own clothes, atau she likes to wear dresses from the '40s. Other people stared atau commented, usually negatively. When she tried to dress lebih "normal", she then got flack for trying to fit in. Ultimately she decided that it's worthless to please others, so she dresses how she likes. Don't let other people get to you. You're young--enjoy it.
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