my husband slept with my used to be best friend i forgave him so i berkata its been over a tahun how can i make myself get over it its tearing me down i need some Nasihat note we werent married at the time

True, full blown forgiveness means letting go, "forgive and forget". Easy words to say, but as humans our minds tend to hold on. Your married him. That alone says anda Cinta him. Trust is a huge part of love. Cinta can not survive without it. I glad/sad that your ex BFF is your ex now. What she did is BAD. But I'm also sad that anda Lost your BFF. I would not ever trust her again. I suggest anda leave her alone. "Vengeance is mine" saith the Lord. Give your pain to God, He will take care of it His way. TRUST in Him. Really, give it to God, He is your God and your friend. I hope all goes well for anda my dear ♥

that is really messed up anda should talk 2 her about it and settle it out