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roseteaxx said:
I'm actually pretty good at dealing with them. It comes kinda naturally to me, but it's really hard for a lot of people. I simply ignore them. It seems counterproductive at first. If anda ignore them, anda can't defend yourself, right? But if anda truly do ignore them, completely and totally, it's probably the best way of defending yourself, although it's also probably the hardest. When you're bullied, anda want to cry, anda want to scream at them, anda want to run off. But anda have to resist those impulses. anda can't even acknowledge these bullies' existence. It's really hard, I know. I carry a book around with me all the time, so if needed, I can pretend to be reading, and I won't react at all to them. Don't say, "Do I hear something?" atau anything that might acknowledge them in the slightest. It's hard, but anda won't need to do it for long. They'll usually stop after a very, very short time. Why does this work? They get bored. They do it to get a reaction out of you, and that is what impresses their Friends atau satisfies them atau whatever it is they want, depending on the bully at hand. But if there is no reaction from you, they aren't impressing anyone, atau they aren't satisfying themselves, atau whatever they're after. They get bored.
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