Am I the only 1 who feels a moment of complete rejection when a trade on any of the many sites that allow trades is deleted?

And even when anda ask them to sunting and anda send a message saying anda what them to sunting and discus what they want they still padam it as if anda didn't say anything to them...you send it specifically as an sunting so they would add atau take off atau whatever...and they just say it was bad and your like "i know it was bad tht's why i sent anda a message saying it was bad so u could tell me what u want and tht's why it was sent as a suggestion so u could change it"