1) The Hard man act - guys will put on an act of being hard for 2 reasons: a) They are with mates and having some banter. If ther is banter, there is Hard man acting. b) They fancy you. Some guys will try to give the impression that they are strong, athletic etc. But this is only one way of a guy trying to impress you. If a guy does not do this, it doesn't mean he doesn't fancy you. (see 2)
2) Guys will be sensitive. A guy will be mature and caring around anda if he fancies you. He wants to tunjuk he's not just thinking about sex, and is after a meaningful relationship. He wants to present himself as someone anda can trust and depend on.
3) For a gender that spends a lot of its time boasting about penis sizes, when it comes to asking anda out, it is rare that we have the balls. We like to have as much confirmation as we can that anda like us back so we don't make fools of ourselves, atau destroy a friendship. A mutual friend who gives Nasihat to both sides is very effective in speeding the process of building up the courage. If a very close friend of yours has telah diberi him reason to believe anda like him, he is a lot lebih likely to ask anda out.
4) conversation tiptoes. A guy will become lebih confident and act lebih freely the mor he discovers about you. For instance, if he discovers anda have a dirty mind, only then will he crack open the massive stores innuendos, dirty jokes and double entendres that have been accumulated over the years. If we discover that anda like football, then that may become a common feature of conversation.
5) Guys will think about everything especially if what anda say could be interpreted in lebih than one way. This is because girls torment guys everyday sejak making it so difficult to work out what you're really thinking and if you're interested. To an extent it's fun - there's no describing that feelnig when anda think that a girl might like anda but you're not entirely sure. Instant adrenalin high.
6) We avoid packs. Girls are terrifying enough without having to deal with a large group. If a guy has not had any major conversations with anda for a while, it might not be that he isn't interested, he will just feel lebih comfortable if he's not surrounded sejak girls and "on his own" then a guy's confidence will evaporate in seconds. We're way lebih comfortable if we can have a conversation with anda alone. We don't have to deal with every one of your Friends watching us and making judgements on us and worknig out we're into anda and telling you. We will play it selamat, peti deposit keselamatan if possible.
7) Look at what effort do we make to chat to you? Who's first to start a Facebook atau text chat? Will he approach anda when with your friends? Will he leave his group of Friends if he sees anda walking sejak and talk to you? This shows he ranks your company above banter with friends, and means anda are important to him.
8) Like girls do this, it is also a common tactic amongst guys. A guy who often texts anda first may not start a conversation sejak text for a while, to see if anda will. This gives him an idea of how well anda value his conversation, atau he may think anda need some angkasa atau will be asleep. He won't want to seem too keen. If a guy anda fancy doesn't text anda for a while, text him.
9) Guys Cinta compliments. Doesn't matter if its part of an insult e.g. "Nah if i was in charge, I suppose i would kep anda around. I need SOMEONE who can make me laugh". This shows anda value a guy and makes him feel he's doing a good job.
10) The Chase. If a guy loves you, he will chase anda around the world. But anda tread a fine line. Nobody's going to wait around forever. Remember to drop some hints, give him some things to think about while he's gonig after you, uif you're playing hard to get, atau he may think you're not interested and let anda walk away.
11) a guy will often look at anda across a room atau from a distance if he likes you. If anda look at him, then don't take too much stock in if he turns away, maintains his stare, atau tries to look as if he's daydreaming. Each guy is different. And while some will be confident enough to maintain the loook, some will try to disguise it.
12) Sometimes a guy will go out of his way to help anda out. He wants to tunjuk he's kind. Look at if he does this to anybody else? If he does this to someone close to anda that he knows reasonably well, he may be trying to get some inside info on you. If he does this only to you, then he's menunjukkan an interest.
13) Manpoints - not exclusive to guys. If anda play COD, atau like football, atau horror films, then this will give anda a lot of respect from the guy. We know that girls like this aren't common and although it isn't the be all and end all, it certainly helps.
14) Help us out. Sometimes we want anda to make the first move. We might be too scared, atau unsure if anda like us, atau just plain confused. Sometimes, (but not always) a guy erally wants anda to clear things up, and help him to understand the situation. Doesn't have to be a massive spoiler, just give him a less subtle indicator every now and then.
15) Just like girls travel in groups and tell each other everything, guys often will give their close Friends regular updates, atau even include their close friend (especially if that friend is taken) in your conversations as backup, another person they trust who can advise them, notice different things. Even if anda start going out, if a guy is wise, he won't stop the updates. He will know that the chase isn't over, that anda are still keeping him on his toes.
16) If a guy doesn't pick up on signals, atau doesn't ask anda out even if anda think you've made your feelings obvious. Sometimes we're hopelessly oblivious, atau just need things spelled out for us so that we can build up the courage to ask anda out.
17) Confidant - A common idea among guys is that if anda become a girl's confidant, anda are as good as in there. A common method of attempting to reach this position is telling anda the really deep stuff in their lives - their biggest secrets, things they dont talk about often. Do they mantion problems at home? The theory is that if they open up and tunjuk they trust you, then anda are likely to do the same.
18) Nasihat on other girls. If this ever comes your way, then be alert. this will tell anda for sure if the guy is into anda atau not. If he asks Nasihat on getting with an anonymous girl, anda might be that girl. If he asks Nasihat on how to let down gently a girl he doesn't fancy, but is single then think. Why is he letting anda know this? He trusts you. Is he keeping himself single for somebody? Is he making himself look desirable? Then there's a flipside. If he mentions a specific name, and wants Nasihat on getting together with her, then he's not into you.
19) Hypothetical soalan are sometimes used because its not subtle but the guy feels easier if he uses it because it's not saying "I Cinta anda do anda fancy me?" It's a way of telling anda he likes anda but it makes it easier to do so. Also, then it gives the impresion that if anda say no, then things may not be so awkward.
20) We think about the girl we fancy roughly 22 hours a day. However it is not just "she looks hot, i want her in my bed". He will be thinking of hints you've telah diberi him, imagining anda two together, ways to ask anda out, atau just thinking about how much he likes anda and reflecting on good times spent with you.
21) A guy may slip things you've told him into a conversation regularly. This demonstrates he's a good listener and thinks about what anda say.
2) Guys will be sensitive. A guy will be mature and caring around anda if he fancies you. He wants to tunjuk he's not just thinking about sex, and is after a meaningful relationship. He wants to present himself as someone anda can trust and depend on.
3) For a gender that spends a lot of its time boasting about penis sizes, when it comes to asking anda out, it is rare that we have the balls. We like to have as much confirmation as we can that anda like us back so we don't make fools of ourselves, atau destroy a friendship. A mutual friend who gives Nasihat to both sides is very effective in speeding the process of building up the courage. If a very close friend of yours has telah diberi him reason to believe anda like him, he is a lot lebih likely to ask anda out.
4) conversation tiptoes. A guy will become lebih confident and act lebih freely the mor he discovers about you. For instance, if he discovers anda have a dirty mind, only then will he crack open the massive stores innuendos, dirty jokes and double entendres that have been accumulated over the years. If we discover that anda like football, then that may become a common feature of conversation.
5) Guys will think about everything especially if what anda say could be interpreted in lebih than one way. This is because girls torment guys everyday sejak making it so difficult to work out what you're really thinking and if you're interested. To an extent it's fun - there's no describing that feelnig when anda think that a girl might like anda but you're not entirely sure. Instant adrenalin high.
6) We avoid packs. Girls are terrifying enough without having to deal with a large group. If a guy has not had any major conversations with anda for a while, it might not be that he isn't interested, he will just feel lebih comfortable if he's not surrounded sejak girls and "on his own" then a guy's confidence will evaporate in seconds. We're way lebih comfortable if we can have a conversation with anda alone. We don't have to deal with every one of your Friends watching us and making judgements on us and worknig out we're into anda and telling you. We will play it selamat, peti deposit keselamatan if possible.
7) Look at what effort do we make to chat to you? Who's first to start a Facebook atau text chat? Will he approach anda when with your friends? Will he leave his group of Friends if he sees anda walking sejak and talk to you? This shows he ranks your company above banter with friends, and means anda are important to him.
8) Like girls do this, it is also a common tactic amongst guys. A guy who often texts anda first may not start a conversation sejak text for a while, to see if anda will. This gives him an idea of how well anda value his conversation, atau he may think anda need some angkasa atau will be asleep. He won't want to seem too keen. If a guy anda fancy doesn't text anda for a while, text him.
9) Guys Cinta compliments. Doesn't matter if its part of an insult e.g. "Nah if i was in charge, I suppose i would kep anda around. I need SOMEONE who can make me laugh". This shows anda value a guy and makes him feel he's doing a good job.
10) The Chase. If a guy loves you, he will chase anda around the world. But anda tread a fine line. Nobody's going to wait around forever. Remember to drop some hints, give him some things to think about while he's gonig after you, uif you're playing hard to get, atau he may think you're not interested and let anda walk away.
11) a guy will often look at anda across a room atau from a distance if he likes you. If anda look at him, then don't take too much stock in if he turns away, maintains his stare, atau tries to look as if he's daydreaming. Each guy is different. And while some will be confident enough to maintain the loook, some will try to disguise it.
12) Sometimes a guy will go out of his way to help anda out. He wants to tunjuk he's kind. Look at if he does this to anybody else? If he does this to someone close to anda that he knows reasonably well, he may be trying to get some inside info on you. If he does this only to you, then he's menunjukkan an interest.
13) Manpoints - not exclusive to guys. If anda play COD, atau like football, atau horror films, then this will give anda a lot of respect from the guy. We know that girls like this aren't common and although it isn't the be all and end all, it certainly helps.
14) Help us out. Sometimes we want anda to make the first move. We might be too scared, atau unsure if anda like us, atau just plain confused. Sometimes, (but not always) a guy erally wants anda to clear things up, and help him to understand the situation. Doesn't have to be a massive spoiler, just give him a less subtle indicator every now and then.
15) Just like girls travel in groups and tell each other everything, guys often will give their close Friends regular updates, atau even include their close friend (especially if that friend is taken) in your conversations as backup, another person they trust who can advise them, notice different things. Even if anda start going out, if a guy is wise, he won't stop the updates. He will know that the chase isn't over, that anda are still keeping him on his toes.
16) If a guy doesn't pick up on signals, atau doesn't ask anda out even if anda think you've made your feelings obvious. Sometimes we're hopelessly oblivious, atau just need things spelled out for us so that we can build up the courage to ask anda out.
17) Confidant - A common idea among guys is that if anda become a girl's confidant, anda are as good as in there. A common method of attempting to reach this position is telling anda the really deep stuff in their lives - their biggest secrets, things they dont talk about often. Do they mantion problems at home? The theory is that if they open up and tunjuk they trust you, then anda are likely to do the same.
18) Nasihat on other girls. If this ever comes your way, then be alert. this will tell anda for sure if the guy is into anda atau not. If he asks Nasihat on getting with an anonymous girl, anda might be that girl. If he asks Nasihat on how to let down gently a girl he doesn't fancy, but is single then think. Why is he letting anda know this? He trusts you. Is he keeping himself single for somebody? Is he making himself look desirable? Then there's a flipside. If he mentions a specific name, and wants Nasihat on getting together with her, then he's not into you.
19) Hypothetical soalan are sometimes used because its not subtle but the guy feels easier if he uses it because it's not saying "I Cinta anda do anda fancy me?" It's a way of telling anda he likes anda but it makes it easier to do so. Also, then it gives the impresion that if anda say no, then things may not be so awkward.
20) We think about the girl we fancy roughly 22 hours a day. However it is not just "she looks hot, i want her in my bed". He will be thinking of hints you've telah diberi him, imagining anda two together, ways to ask anda out, atau just thinking about how much he likes anda and reflecting on good times spent with you.
21) A guy may slip things you've told him into a conversation regularly. This demonstrates he's a good listener and thinks about what anda say.
