If I had a quarter for each time someone on this club berkata that line... “No one likes me.”, “I’m ignored.”, “I don’t fit in.”. No that really isn’t the case.

I’ve gone to the club activity of about five of the people who have berkata this, and looked for times where they had been treated unfairly, atau been ignored, and usually that’s not the case. I’ve also noticed that most of the time the people who have berkata these things are new, and/or don’t do stuff on the club often in the first place.

It takes time to find out if anda want to be in a group atau not. And just because anda aren’t instantly popular, it doesn’t mean people dislike you. And while I have seen quite a few of these people say this who have had run-ins with Mephilesthedark, Mephiles is not everyone. Just because one person snapped at you, it doesn’t mean the whole club is against you; it doesn’t even mean that one person is against you. I argue with people I’m Friends with all the time, and they argue with each other, but that alone doesn’t, atau shouldn’t, make someone want to leave so quickly.

And if people ARE hating on anda at first, are anda really just going to roll over and give up? Apparently yes because I keep seeing all these spam komen-komen about it so often it hurts. When I started out on this club, people HATED me, and I was told many times to just stop and leave the club, but I didn’t and now I can honestly say I’m pretty successful in this club.

Think of it like you’re running for President. Just because it gets hard, all the support, and money used to help get anda started is for naught if anda aren’t willing to stick to it.

And then there’s the people that go “I’m leaving again,” “I’m back”, “I’m leaving.” HOW ABOUT anda JUST DON’T SAY ANYTHING? No one is going to freak out over anda being gone three days, coming back for three days, leaving again for three days, then coming back AGAIN, for three days. When you’re here, they’re happy, when you’re gone, they’ll wonder probably, but if you’re back in a week’s time it’s not a big deal. If anda say “Sorry I can’t be on for a bit because *insert reason here*. I might be back in *insert amount here* days.” that’s completely fine, as long as anda don’t overdo it.

Stick around if anda want to stick around. Leave if anda want to leave. But don’t post a komen every time anda say so. And BEFORE anda decide to, take at least a full hari after wanting to leave each time anda want to, to think up and go over if anda actually want to go. And if anda do leave, don’t padam anything. No matter how much anda might want to, atau how much anda think it doesn’t matter, I can almost guarantee that anda will regret it later. And other people who like what you’ve telah diposkan might not want the stuff to disappear either. And above all, do NOT padam your account, that is unless anda want to re-fan ALL the clubs, and add EVERY SINGLE THING YOU’VE MADE BACK onto your notifications.


On a similar topic, I address those who vanish out of thin air, then don’t come back for quite a while. Now obviously I stand sejak that making a habit of notifying people if you’re going to be gone gets really annoying when anda do it so often, but when anda just go nowhere people get worried, atau they get annoyed.

Now before someone gets upset, this has nothing to do with situations where anda can’t get onto a computer, atau the site, atau any other immediate reason that would keep anda away, and it doesn’t have to do with it being instantaneous and anda not knowing when it would happen. This is about the situations where when we find out what anda were doing, it turns out these people were just chilling.

~Watching youtube
~got bored
~and of course MINECRAFT

I’ll admit that anda don’t have to tell anyone what you’re doing, it’s your life, but it’s also common courtesy. When I find out that a person I was waiting to talk to about something, atau roleplay with, atau forum with, was gone just because they were having so much fun with Team Fortress 2, all I can think is “Well thanks for wasting my time!”

For me, I have my fun when I see that the club is slowed down, and little atau nothing is going on. I’ll spend about a half-hour atau so doing whatever, then come back to check up. If there’s still nothing happening, I’ll go back to what I was doing.

And if you’re going to be doing whatever for a long period of time, all anda need to do so people don’t get upset after waiting for so long, is make a komen atau artikel ONCE, listing the things you’re going to be doing, when anda plan to do them, what times they usually happen, and how much time they might take up. And if anda want to make sure no one’s left out, send it to a friend’s wall.

Again, anda don’t have to do this, and these are all just suggestions; I hope everyone understands that if someone wants to just stop out of nowhere, disappear into Minecraft for a bulan (has happened), then come back like nothing’s happened, they can do it at their leisure, but to those people, it in no way makes anda any less inconsiderate.


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