Who's getting sick of all the Delena bullying???

If anybody bullies,Delena peminat-peminat does...Constantly insulting Stelena is ridiculous.Stelena peminat-peminat don't insult Delena atau Delena peminat-peminat as much as D/E peminat-peminat do,at least that was what I noticed. This is all turning into BL/LP from OTH,and I don't like that at all...Have your opinion but respect the opinion of the others.Fighting over couples is stupid and immature. I don't enjoy coming here anymore just because of the all that.

Ok.. Now that this soalan is asked, I have to say what I feel.
First of all, I dont like the fact that this soalan is even asked with focus on the Damon/Elena shipper,s because that's insulting to me as a D/E shipper even if I dont 'bully' anyone. Now I dont even get why anyone 'bully' anyone in the fandom. What is bullying? Is it expressing my negative opinion on YOUR ship? Is that bullying to you?

Now if I think Stefan/Elena are rushed and boring to me, that is not bullying, that's just my opinion and anda may disagree.

Secondly, I dont think we can say that one side of the fandom is at fault while the other side is totally innocent. It goes both ways. And IF anyone can bully anyone, then the Stefan/Elena and Damon/Bonnie peminat-peminat are always united together AGAINST the Damon/Elena fandom. I dont mind it most of the time, it doesnt matter to me because I am 21 years old, not 12.

So please stop being so sensitive about things and let it go if anyone offends anda personally, because it just shows that this person is childish to "fight" and insult a real human being about fictional characters.

We may be passionate about our ship, but no one should be disrespectful to individual persons.

Peace out ;)

sooooooooo,I have to say a few words too
I am Delena/Stelena and Donnie fan!yup,I don't care if that sounds weird atau anything but it's how I feel.and since I Cinta them all I can say my true non-subjective opinion
Delena and Stelena peminat-peminat really go over board with fighting,Delena peminat-peminat say Stelena is booooooring,and I don't think so.Stelena is a "true love" kind of love,it's pure,not so sexual,vulgar atau whatever,it's calm and safe.Delena is fierce and passionate,wild and thing related to that,kind of love,but for me Delena isn't love,it's lebih like lust,and things that is usually compared to Edward/Bella relationship,because for me,love is when you're able to be with someone forever,"I need anda like a drug" Cinta burns fast,it's not stable :/
On the other hand I think Donnie is mix of that both,we all know how Bonnie "drools" over Damon,but if anda remember(who read the books),Damon is really gentle and protective over Bonnie,I loved that bathroom scene,when Bonnie almost "destroyed the rocks around Damon's heart",so don't tell me there isn't nooo way in hell Donnie connection!
I've gone a little far with explaining,but it really bothers me when someone fights over ships,fine if anda like one ship and don't like the others side ship,don't throw rocks at them before anda consider the fact that they might be right,and for this,all 3 ships have connection!
although the only ridiculous shipping for me is Bonnie and Stefan,I've read all the books,and only thing I've seen between Bonnie and Stefan is that Bonnie sometimes drooled over Stefan's gorgeousness,and that's only shallow and one sided admiration,soo like really,idk -.-
But,again to repeat,it's stupid to insult someone just because they like other couple than anda do :/

one lebih thing,questions like this are totally unnecessary and are a perfect reason to start a fight in the spot!
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I know I'm getting sick of all the bullying off Stelena and Bamon fans. I'm a DE peminat and I'm constantly insulted sejak SE and DB peminat-peminat all the time and I think this soalan is an insult. To be honest I think there is bullying from all ships, so stop focusing on DE just because anda don't ship them.

I think that other people getting so upset that we have a different opinion than them is really stupid and counterproductive to the Fanpop experience. I mean, really the purpose of this website is to share opinions and discuss things amicably instead of like 2 tahun olds! ;(

I don't like the ship wars, I come here, make my picks and go to my spot (Delena) I think we all have been disrespectful once (Delena, Stelena, Bamon fans) but for me, I just ignore where they try to tease me, because as I berkata before fighting over a ship is childish and we have to remember that liking a couple do not defines us as people

I don't want to get into an argument but I really don't think it's fair to say that it is all one-sided. I think both SE and DE shippers can both be confrontational when it comes to our shipping opinions so it is unfair to place all the blame on DE shippers' shoulders. There are just as many instances on both sides to claim the same thing. I'm not saying it should happen anywhere but I certainly don't think pointing fingers is going to solve anything. We all need to try to be lebih respectful of each other.

DELENA definitely bullies us STELENA fans, however if STELENA was the dominant group (because lets face it, DELENA is on top) we would do the same to them. So i think that it is fair.. it sucks for STELENA, but dont let it get to you

anda ARE JUST JEALOUS.. CAUSE ALL OF anda SEE WHAT WE SEE IN THEM AND DON'T WANT TO ADMIT IT.. THEY WISH THEIR SHPPERS HAD THE CHEMISTRY THAT DELENA HAVE.
AND I KNOW THAT SE AN DB INSULT US TOO SO I DON'T KNOW WHY anda GUYS ARE COMPLAINING...

I am a Damon/Elena fan, but I don't have problem with Stefan/Elena. They are cute together and I like their pure love, I just don't find them as interesting as D/E. What I like about D/E is that they are passionate and have fun together. The chemistry between Ian and Nina is great.
The only "couple" I can't stand is Damon/Bonnie because they have nothing to do with each other. They have totally different personalities and it would be ridiculous and stupid to get them together.

But I ask every D/E and S/E fans: DO NOT INSULT EACH OTHER, PLEASE!