Would anda be with Stefan atau Damon? atau both? Why? The best answer will win 20 props. 2nd place win 15 pujian 3 place will win 10 props. Note: Please don't say that they are cute atau sexy because we already know that.

i believe that true Cinta is not sejak finding the perfect person because no one is really perfect in our world . true Cinta is sejak learning to see the imperfect person perfectly so i choose damon .everything damon did he did it for Cinta .stefan just alih on with his own life while damon spent the last 145 serarching for away to get katherine back .stefan just handle elena to klaus while unleast we all know that damon will never do that and he will fight and die before he did that .that the differnce i am not haing stefan i just so amazed about the way damon Cinta
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It's hard do decide for one. We know that Damon is sexy and dangerous and I'm crazy about him. I Cinta the way he loves Elena sejak all his hati, tengah-tengah that she becomes the most important thing in his life being loved like that makes anda feel special and happy but I understand Elenas choice sometimes. Stefan is like rock and life with him is easy. His emotions doesn't take control over him so with men like that women can have family atau child. If anda think about your future and anda want it to be calm Stefan is better but I would still choose Damon becouse with him in relationship would be passion and I think with guy like him I could share real love. Ant btw I've never really liked Stefan I can't say why;/

I would let the right One come to me when the time comes. They are both loving people In there own ways, and did whatever it took to protect Elena in the own ways, but it's hard to say whoni could choose to love, but I guess it would be the first to win my hati, tengah-tengah over, even if it was both. Whatever happens, happens

Both of them are loving in their own way. They're both caring. However, there is a difference between the two of them.

Stefan has learned to control his emotions and has accepted what he is, even though he hates himself for it. For a long time, he was struggling. All the guilt, all the pain he had caused, it consumed him. But he had learned to control his urges and control his feelings, pretty much all alone, with the help of Lexi.

Damon had hidden those feelings for all the time he wasn't over Katherine. Now that he is finally coming to terms with what he is, we get to see that side of him that he hid from everyone for so long. But opposite of Stefan's situation, he's not alone. He has gained so many Friends when he showed his humanity. How many people hated him in season 1? Elena, Jeremy, Bonnie, Alaric, Caroline? They've all become Friends throughout episodes.

Just because Stefan has been all "goody-goody" doesn't mean that it's any easier for him. He has gone through the exact same thing that Damon is currently going through: struggling with their humanity.

So, in conclusion, both brothers have qualities that are noble. And it's easy to Cinta them both. Heck, I do Cinta both characters. But, I do prefer Stefan's character right now because he respects Elena's decision, even though he doesn't agree with it. It doesn't mean he loves her any less.

But, both characters have strengths and weaknesses.

Although i Cinta damon n dislike stefan i'll put that aside n put myself in elena's shoes...ofcourse id luv the way stefan is calm, steady, n rational n i'll feel gd about him consistly trying 2 please me , n how he respects my decisions n trys so hard not 2 upset being carful not 2 hurt my feelings...i mean who wouldnt? It'll be like im a princess atau sumthing......but then they will be a part of me which misses the danger the anger n heartbreak, yes heartbreak cuz i'll miss how we'll get back 2gether which just makes our Cinta grow n be stronger. Saying all that i think i'd choose stefan which would be my first n easier choice, but sooner atau later i'll relize i luv adventures n danger cuz its a part of me n stefan would'nt give me that so in the end i'd choose damon cuz he fits me n my passion 2 follow my hati, tengah-tengah n my emotions

i choose damon because he's lebih like normal human and i don't feel there is an Angel seterusnya to me(like stefan). Damon has weaknesses and sometimes he chooses wrong decisions and makes mistakes like any human. so i don't feel uncomfortable when i am with him. he would do any things for his Cinta even he plays as a bad man to rescue his love. he is emotional and sensitive and he doesn't just follow logic not like stefan.so i think i can have a better and sweet life with him with full of real and tender love.

There has always been something about Stefan I just can't like. Frankly he's just too "good".
It would feel like someone better than me is always looking over my shoulder. Damon is not like that. He falls, gets hurt than despite everything, including the pain, he gets back up.
If Elena starts dating Damon now after "As I lay dying" as so many Delena peminat-peminat think (I don't believe this personally, it would be too easy) their relationship would be rocky at best. They Cinta each other but Cinta alone can not sustain a normal relationship like Elena wants. Now I am not saying that it won't work for I have seen it before but they will have their ups and downs. Sometimes even resulting in short "break-ups" following in "make-ups". (Assuming that Stefan doesn't come back for awhile)
Anyway, long story short. A reasonably stable relationship will come from dating Stefan (if he is still in Mystic Falls), a rocky yet passionate relationship will come from dating Damon and I do not recommend dating BOTH brothers. That would only end in disaster.
For further research in this conundrum of Stable/Safe .Vs. Passionate/"True" Cinta see the movie 'The Accidental Husband' where most of my theories came from.-Silver

I chose Stefan because he is kinder and lebih good natured than Damon.