Why is rose so tron about dimitri and adrian? why cant she jsut choose one to love?

I don't really see her as being torn. She knows she loves Dimitri, but he keeps pushing her away.
She cares about Adrian and knows he loves her, so since Dimitri is pushing her away, she's trying to force herself to give Adrian a chance ... to force herself to Cinta him.
The problem is as long as Dimitri is alive she will long to be with him because when anda Cinta someone that's what anda do.
If anda Cinta one person ... truly Cinta them ... and can't be with them, anda can't be happy with anyone else ... It just doesn't work.
It would take Dimitri dying atau maybe moving really far away with no contact for a really long time for her to ever be able to be with anyone else in a long term relationship that will work and last.
Basically, if Dimitri would get over his issues and stop pushing her away she'd be with him in a heartbeat ... he has her hati, tengah-tengah and she loves him lebih than anything. Adrian is fully aware of this.
Her being with Adrian is simply settling. It's not that she doesn't care about him, she does, but it's not the same as she cares about Dimitri.

i dont really think she's torn. i think she loves dimitri and will Cinta him lebih than anyone in the world. i mean she saved him. but i think she has a place for adrian too but its just not number 1.

I think its because when dimitri left she started to like Adrian, he started to fill the void Dimitri left although he loves Dimka lebih she knows she cant have his children and that the age difference is a big thing also she doesnt want to hati, tengah-tengah Adrian. She loves them both and wants neither hurt.

This is getting ridiculous. I know someone else other than me can definitely see this as a basic Edward-Jacob situation(Sorry if anda aren't Twilight fans, and see this comparision as insulting). Even though the people are different, the relationships are almost identical. Rose obviously loves Dimitri more, but, even though she's already aware of this, she can't bring herself to admit it. I think this is because she's just afraid of getting hurt again and endangering those around her.

I agree with what someone else said, this is just another Twilight situation. I actually like Adrian and Rose together, but at the same time it feels lebih onesided Cinta on Adrian's part whereas most of Rose's hati, tengah-tengah belongs to Dimitri.