Facing Stress is very common in school especially near exam time atau due dates of assignments. Learning ways to cope with stress can minimize the negative impact stress has on your mental health leading to maximize academic performance. Here are 5 ways that I come up while in school that I think might be helpful to new college students.
1. Have a support network - They are the academic resource center, the professors atau teaching assistance, your friends, your family atau school counselors. sejak having a reliable network of support, anda allow yourself to reach out to people who can help you. Furthermore, it makes anda feel less isolated and helpless knowing that there is something anda can do about your problems. So for instance, if anda fail an exam and anda don’t know how to ace the seterusnya one, anda can talk to your teaching assistance atau professors for studying advice. anda can tell them how anda have been studying, go over your exams, and they can help determine where improvements are needed.
2. Acknowledging Your Problems and Preparation - Sometimes, when we have problems, we don’t really want to acknowledge atau deal with them right away because they make us feel lebih stressful. They even make us panic. However, sejak facing the problems early on, anda can minimize long term effects of stress. For instance, when we have an exam coming up and we know that we’re not prepared, we feel stressed. We deal it sejak studying, but the stress is always there because the exam is not yet over. This is a good approach. But if we don’t study because of the stress we feel, we end up procrastinating worsening our situation.
3. Your Ability to Deal with Emotions - It’s good to recognize and acknowledge how we are feeling and not put them off. But at times, we might have to if the problems require a urgent response. In that case, we might have to stop feeling sad atau depressed and just do what is needed to be done. For example, if we fail an exam, we become discouraged and we don’t study anymore. Instead, this is the time, where feeling discouraged is not going to get anda anywhere. In this situation, anda should be taking actions to figure out what went wrong and find a solution.
4. Your attitude and Outlook - Yes, sometimes, we can feel pessimistic after a negative event. But if we keep looking at the positives, we’re lebih likely to find solutions. For example, in my first year, I was doing so horribly that I felt that maybe I should just drop out. But instead, I figured that dropping out is not going to do any good, because anda never know what might happen if anda continued your studies.
5. Find Your Sense of Control - When problems happen to us, we feel that the event is beyond our control atau the doings of others. And we usually take on that sejak blaming external factors. But if we learn to recognize how we might have contributed to the problems, we can learn to take control and fix them.
1. Have a support network - They are the academic resource center, the professors atau teaching assistance, your friends, your family atau school counselors. sejak having a reliable network of support, anda allow yourself to reach out to people who can help you. Furthermore, it makes anda feel less isolated and helpless knowing that there is something anda can do about your problems. So for instance, if anda fail an exam and anda don’t know how to ace the seterusnya one, anda can talk to your teaching assistance atau professors for studying advice. anda can tell them how anda have been studying, go over your exams, and they can help determine where improvements are needed.
2. Acknowledging Your Problems and Preparation - Sometimes, when we have problems, we don’t really want to acknowledge atau deal with them right away because they make us feel lebih stressful. They even make us panic. However, sejak facing the problems early on, anda can minimize long term effects of stress. For instance, when we have an exam coming up and we know that we’re not prepared, we feel stressed. We deal it sejak studying, but the stress is always there because the exam is not yet over. This is a good approach. But if we don’t study because of the stress we feel, we end up procrastinating worsening our situation.
3. Your Ability to Deal with Emotions - It’s good to recognize and acknowledge how we are feeling and not put them off. But at times, we might have to if the problems require a urgent response. In that case, we might have to stop feeling sad atau depressed and just do what is needed to be done. For example, if we fail an exam, we become discouraged and we don’t study anymore. Instead, this is the time, where feeling discouraged is not going to get anda anywhere. In this situation, anda should be taking actions to figure out what went wrong and find a solution.
4. Your attitude and Outlook - Yes, sometimes, we can feel pessimistic after a negative event. But if we keep looking at the positives, we’re lebih likely to find solutions. For example, in my first year, I was doing so horribly that I felt that maybe I should just drop out. But instead, I figured that dropping out is not going to do any good, because anda never know what might happen if anda continued your studies.
5. Find Your Sense of Control - When problems happen to us, we feel that the event is beyond our control atau the doings of others. And we usually take on that sejak blaming external factors. But if we learn to recognize how we might have contributed to the problems, we can learn to take control and fix them.
A husband went to the doctor and tells the doctor
"I think my wife is going deaf"
-Doc-"Just to find out do this test on her
stand 50 feet away from her and ask her something if she doesn't respond alih 10 feet closer and try the same thing as so forth"
So the husbad got utama and found the wife preparing makan malam, majlis makan malam and asks her
"Honey, Whats for dinner" No reply
he moves 10 feet closer and tries again
"honey whats for dinner" No reply
so he moved 10 lebih feet closer and tries again
"honey whats for dinner" she balas back and says
"For the third freaking time its chicken"
"I think my wife is going deaf"
-Doc-"Just to find out do this test on her
stand 50 feet away from her and ask her something if she doesn't respond alih 10 feet closer and try the same thing as so forth"
So the husbad got utama and found the wife preparing makan malam, majlis makan malam and asks her
"Honey, Whats for dinner" No reply
he moves 10 feet closer and tries again
"honey whats for dinner" No reply
so he moved 10 lebih feet closer and tries again
"honey whats for dinner" she balas back and says
"For the third freaking time its chicken"
Washington Post Competition asked for a two line rhyme with the most romantic first line and least romantic saat line.
This is the (hands down!!) winner...
'My darling,my love,my beautiful life;
Marrying anda simply demolished my life.
I see your face when i'm dreaming;
That's why i always wake up screaming.
Kind, intelligent, loving and HOT;
This describes everything you're not.
I want to feel your sweet embrace;
But don't take the paper bag off your face.
I Cinta your smile, your face, your eyes;
Damn,I'm good at telling lies!!!.'
This is the (hands down!!) winner...
'My darling,my love,my beautiful life;
Marrying anda simply demolished my life.
I see your face when i'm dreaming;
That's why i always wake up screaming.
Kind, intelligent, loving and HOT;
This describes everything you're not.
I want to feel your sweet embrace;
But don't take the paper bag off your face.
I Cinta your smile, your face, your eyes;
Damn,I'm good at telling lies!!!.'