I really think this guy likes me. But there's one problem....

I have the same problem, my guy thinks we should secret-date, so that's what we do. But for you, anda should find out if this guy likes you, if he does... and if anda like him, maybe anda should secret-date...

i say confront him about it, dont let him cheat on the other girl but find out whats going on

My friend had the same problem.

The guy told her (when she asked him..) that YES, the guy loves her, but rather have her as a friend because he doesnt want to complicate things between them. For me, that's kindda right, because when Friends have conflicts, they just say sorry and everything's fine.. But when a BESTFRIEND became your lover, --and for example, everything went wrong-- it'll be hard for the two of anda to regain that friendship. :)

I hope that helps. :)

sounds to me like mayb he just wants his cake n eat it too. not only confront him about it but make sure he isnt "secretly dating" his other girlfriend bhind ur back.. just b careful. cos some guys make u feel like they really r into u but they r just out for an ego trip. some guys r really good at making u believe ur the only one n they r just out for some tail(sorry guys)!... but it happens often from what i see first hand. ya see, i have lebih guys Friends then girl Friends (i do have a bf that im serious with) n i see my Friends hit on other girls in bars even though they r dating someone else. n then they brag about it. if his feelings r genuine, ultimatly u 2 will b together exclusively.

It's up to him to make the decision, not you. All anda can really do is be nice to him (which should be pretty easy since you're such good friends) and make sure he doesn't cheat on anda behind your back, if he does want anda instead.

The same thing happend to me a while ago... and I got hurt, because I never told him what I felt and he started dating this girl but I could tell that he had feelings for me, but we were bffs and he started dating her to forget about me, because he didn't think I felt the same thing. End of the story: I got hurt, he found out too late that I liked him and I did too then our friendship was gone and our Cinta too.
anda should tell him! I know it's hard but it's the best! Trust me

well this guy may have feelings for u, but he has to choose btwn his girl and u. if he doesnt like u enough to break up with this girl, then i say forget it for now and look for other guys as hard as it may be. if he gets jealous and does something thats good, but if not then that really means forget him as a potential bf.

My Opinion Is-
It Sounds Like He's Just Using You! He Probably Thinks You're Pretty And Since He Already Has A Girlfriend, He Doesn't Know What To Do! Tell Him That anda Want To Stay Friends! Because It Sounds Like He Just Likes Chasing anda Around! Once anda Actually Start Making It Easy For Him, He'll Just Get Bored And Leave anda Alone! (I have a friend named Piper and she does the same thing. Once she actually get's the guy they Ciuman once atau twice and it's goodbye.) anda Don't Want This To Happen To You, It's Not A Good Feeling! So Just Stay Friends! Because If He Is A Chaser, He'll Just Dump You! It's Really Hard To Get Back To Being Friends Once He's Your Ex!

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If He Wants anda To tarikh Him And He Already Has A Girlfriend, Then How Can anda Trust Him! anda Can't Have A Relationship Without Trust!

Last But Not Least-
I Know It Sounds Like I'm Just Tryig To Shoot anda Down-And I'm Really Sorry For That-But I'm Not! anda berkata That anda Can Look Into His Eyes And Tell That He Liks You! Are anda 100% Positive About That? It's Possible That anda May Just Be Seeing What anda Want To See!

I'm Really Sorry! I Must Sound Like A Complete jalang, perempuan jalang Huh? But It's Important For Everyone No See The Negatives, Not Just The Postitives! :)

@lolibarbie.. actually, I don't know what to say,.Coz I don't really know your story personally..But, I only wanted anda to think of it. Is your Bestfriend's feeling for anda had shown for a longer time? If that so, I guess, he really loves You..but maybe in terms of Friendship!! hmmm.. if this guy loves anda lebih than as his bestever friend..why not he choose anda at this moment as his girl? Try to get his decision.., if he choose anda thats great but if its not..maybe,,that's a point of mistake..Follow what your hati, tengah-tengah says..and listen to what your mind talks about.. I only read your problem now coz I'm new here.. I just wanna help you!! Thanks. :)