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pffff:))) another "advice" problem over here:/:/please...help:)


lay back and sit comfortable...I know this kind of Nasihat problem is being repeated and I was sometimes answering them but ...I tried and I cant give Nasihat to myself:)) I dont know what to.."think",precisely.
umm let me start with the soalan :
what does it mean?
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So, this year,Im in yr9.... I went to a new school and came in the same time with a new guy: "Markos".
at first I didnt even think about him but then I had a really weird dream with us hugging and kissing.
the problem is...his just the really bad-guy:)))
the smoker and druggy guy who get's into the principal's office quite alot.
in lesson's I caught him staring a couple of times and now it's just akward...
1.the staring
2.the smiling
3.the...akwardness when we stay seterusnya to eachother.
it's obvious I kinda..fell for him and my Friends say we two match...pff:)))
ummm...but 2 days lalu
he dikomen something..which I didnt quite understand I thought he was somewhat saying something bad...
and I said: "Markos its not your business<.< atau something like that (as I berkata it in my language)
and...I was expecting him to start swearing like guys usually do but he just looked at me while I looked at him...nasty
my friend started shouting at me as she thinks he berkata it as" defending me"(the subject doesnt matter it was a conv. with a teacher about a mark)
and the staring continued...

I thought of giving pujian for help but wouldnt that be "forced help"
I mean if someone wants to give me an Nasihat he/she shouldnt expect something back...right?:)
so...whoever has the patience to read this please help me:)
 R33n33sm3 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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MissKnowItAll said:
I think he likes you. That's very clear.

The real thing is whether anda should go for it.

anda say he is a smoker and whatnot. If it were me, I'd take it very slowly. A friendship first etc. Smoking isn't a bad thing (drugs are complicated- let's cover that some other time), but anda need to determine if he is 'safe'. And I don't mean selamat, peti deposit keselamatan as in 'cool'. I mean selamat, peti deposit keselamatan as in could he ever harm you?

Having berkata that, it seems he was defending anda with the thing with the teacher etc. I'd conclude there that he is rather gentle, but maybe protective. That was probably a good thing for him to do.

The main thing with this is that everything is on the fence. Those are my opinions, but anda need to follow your gut and instinct.

Remember, if his 'bad' side does come out in a relationship, anda MUST tell someone.
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woaw...gee....thanks that really helped me alot! *votes best answer*
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Thank you. ID
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klarissa03 said:
like whats the problem.? i.m sorry....but i dident understand
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ya ditto...
CullenProperty posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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its ok:) I guess Im not a good explainer,my problem is tht I dont know what to do and I dont know if he likes me atau not;)
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ruby1000 said:
I think that he likes you. Hang out with him lebih become friends. I don't really understand the whole conversation thingy but if anda offended him atau confused him in relation to your feelings then anda should clear that up.
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Snerkie said:
Firstly; anda shouldn't judge someone if they smoke atau do drugs, they can be the nicest person and that sort of stuff is a changable trait.
Secondly; anda may be misinterpreting the "staring". He could potentially be stoned :\

Your young though so the important thing is if anda do like him don't try and get into his "clique" of drugs and stuff just to get closer to him atau get him to like you. Just talk to him normally as anda are, don't take notice of the staring and such, just talk and you'll figure out if he likes anda lebih than a friend atau is just a defensive person. (also don't always believe your friends, they just want to convince anda of something even if it's not true, they're not being mean just wanting anda to be happy)
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FearlessSinger said:
He probably likes you. But don't get to close to him cuz the smoking and drugs are something anda want to stay away from. Find out what he is REALLY like: What he does outside of school, if he has a girlfriend atau two(you know what I mean), if he's just a player, ect. Don't fall for him to easily cuz he could just be playing anda in his stupid game. Watch out for him. And don't get pressured into doing drugs and stuff.
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