I live with my parents. I am sadly unemployed at the moment, it is not so simple to get a job where I live and I lack in skills. But I have this plan that once I get a job and have enough money saved and able to drive without an adult, which I have to have an N, that's how it is where I live, anyways, once I have all that figured out then I will get my own place. I want my own place so bad, I hate living with my parents with a passion and never wanted to be one of those people who are in their 30s and living with their parents at least, I am not living off my parents, meaning I don't spend their money as I am unfortunately on welfare.
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I know how anda feel. Hey, at least look at the bright side. Your parents are still alive and anda are spending time with them which anda may miss in the future. Have patience. Things will turn out whether anda think about it atau not. Don't overthink it. Thinking doesn't change much if anda look back, anda might see that thinking too much didn't really change much of your life. It's the action that changes, not thinking. That's what I learne.
So, btw, right now...where are anda planning to apply for a job? Are anda constantly looking for them? What are the obstacles that anda found in your attempt to get a job?
Don't worry about that. My brother is 32 years old and lives with his/our mom and he has not complained about it. He doesn't mind it at all. And look at me. I'm already 25 and I've never had a job in my life. And still can drive
I live with my mom and my brother. My dad lives in St. Louis. I can't live alone. Funny thing about my brother. He's 32 years old and lives with his mom. Our mom. Sorry, Roland. Lol
i live with my grandparents and my mom. (and my sister). me and my sister dont share the same dad, so we r half sisters really. My dad is not living with us, and neither is my sister's dad.
I was renting an apartment near to my universiti from my grandmother`s friend and the rent was very affordable. But she had some family problems and at one point they needed that flat back for themselves, so I had to find a new place. But the prices are crazy, so I decided that best alih would be to come back and live with my parents. Now I`m looking for a job near my hometown, but probably at some point I`ll go back to living in the capital city. :) I don`t mind living with my parents. When I get older, then yea, moving out seems like the logical thing.
It was part time position in an IT project. It ended anyway, so I`m not that sad about moving back, but I wish I could find similar opportunity in the near future. :)
Kinda hate being unemployed, but at the same time it gives time to spend on hobbies. And atm I have sprained my ankle and can`t really go around to job interviews, so I`m thinking about taking few weeks to get well and then start applying everywhere I want.
IT project. Seems interesting. Really. Hobbies? What are your hobbies? Really wanna know about your hobnies because anda enjoy them so much which reduces your bad feelings of being unemployed. Though I do have some hobbies like playing chess and Penulisan stories, I don't think they are enough to make my bad feelings go away. Staying idle and doing nothing is so frustratin. Hate being under control of my parent.
I`m very much into graphic Rekaan and art. Also gaming. :D Yea, being idle is kinda getting on my nerves, but I don`t want to rush anything and really find something I can enjoy. Heh, and the injurie comes from an unlucky hike. Same leg I had already injured few years ago, that`s why it`s so bad, I guess. But, oh well... How about you? Do anda live on your own?
Wow, anda have a lot of cool hobbies. Graphic Rekaan and art are really useful. Yeah. I recently moved out. Got a job in a local cafe .. Also doing extra time on a coaching centre for kids where I am a teacher. Those are kids under fifth grade. Basic stuff. I'm facing hard time managing everything all sejak myself. If anda have any Nasihat for me... Let me know.. I am new to this.
I moved out kinda. I have my own house, but I work 12 to 16 hours on the family ranch, so even if I've moved, I still spend lebih time at my parents house than my own
^I do work, but he's the primary sumber of income (though I am largely in charge of the budget). I'm just starting out with my own business so my own income isn't very steady atau reliable. I do have every intention of changing that, however, once I get the whole business thing figured out.
I live with my parents because I'm so broke I can't alih out even if I wanted to. I've been trying though. It's just a pain in the keldai for some reasons I won't share publicly.
But the basic gist is that every time I save up enough to get out, circumstance (like a car break down) takes all that money away.
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Awwh, this really sucks =[ I've never seen anyone this unlucky...but hey, don't give up. Keep your hopes high and keep going. Hope seterusnya time it won't happen. Are anda currently in a job? What are your plan? anda can hit the peti masuk if anda want to share. Feel free. We, adults, struggle on this part a lot in life. I know how staying with parents can be a pain in the ass. It's not like I don't Cinta them...it's just that staying with them and adjusting with their rules... These are really hard and painful as an adult. We need to share and learn from each others and seek for help and advice.
Tbh that's what I've been saying; the full story is actually kind of worse, but as mentioned, too personal for online. I'm trying but its always one thing after another, it's been like that all year. Pretty much had a full on breakdown back in July and haven't really been truly happy since. I have no plan because tbh I don't think that I should have made it to adulthood. Some people just aren't cut out for it, and I'm one of them. I still try, but eh... It's not even that they have rules, it's just that I want to alih on in life, I'm ready to do so, but I can't. I also don't have a plan because those always change, I'm at a point where I just take things as they come because I really don't know what to expect. It's less stressful that way.
"I have no plan because tbh I don't think that I should have made it to adulthood. Some people just aren't cut out for it, " Who isn't? I think we are all kids stuck in an adult body. Clueles. Struggling to find meanings.
