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Does Anyone Have Any Tips On Coming Out of The Closet?

I know this question's probably been asked millions of times but I really need some advice. I plan to come out to my closest Friends first, then when im lebih comfortable, my parents. Im really nervous about it but im tired of hiding my sexuality from everyone. Any tips atau Nasihat to make it easier?
 DibLuver25 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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IshidaSado said:
Mabey anda Should Write It Down First! It's Easier To Get Everything In Order That Way!

Step1.Pencil And Paper

Step2.Write Your Feelings

Step3.Consider What Points They May Make, And Explain Your Oppinions About Them
*Example*
My Parents May Say That Being Gay Is Against God's Wishes. But I Will Tell Them That God berkata Cinta Is To Be For The Soul, And Souls Dont'Have Genders. In The Bible It berkata God Is Woman And Man *Bacause He Is A Soul* And Cinta Knows No Bounds *If It's True*

But Please, Be Carful With Your Tone Of Voice. I've Tried To Explain This To My Parents Many Times And They Just Tell Me Not To Sas Back....Mabey It's Because I Get Too Heated And Explode On Them. But If anda Need lebih In Depth Points, just Say So! I Wrote A Whole Paper On It For School =)

I Hope I Could Help, And I Wish To Be With anda In Spirit When anda Confess Your Natural Cinta To anda Friends And Parents. I Have A Hard Time Telling My Parents That I'm Bisexual T.T, So I Don't Want Anyone To Suffer Their Parents Rage atau Dissapointment For Being Gay atau Les atau Even Striaght, Because Cinta Is Cinta And When You've Found THe One You've Found The One.
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 Mabey anda Should Write It Down First! It's Easier To Get Everything In Order That Way! Step1.Pencil And Paper Step2.Write Your Feelings Step3.Consider What Points They May Make, And Explain Your Oppinions About Them *Example* My Parents May Say That Being Gay Is Against God's Wishes. But I Will Tell Them That God berkata Cinta Is To Be For The Soul, And Souls Dont'Have Genders. In The Bible It berkata God Is Woman And Man *Bacause He Is A Soul* And Cinta Knows No Bounds *If It's True* But Please, Be Carful With Your Tone Of Voice. I've Tried To Explain This To My Parents Many Times And They Just Tell Me Not To Sas Back....Mabey It's Because I Get Too Heated And Explode On Them. But If anda Need lebih In Depth Points, just Say So! I Wrote A Whole Paper On It For School =) I Hope I Could Help, And I Wish To Be With anda In Spirit When anda Confess Your Natural Cinta To anda Friends And Parents. I Have A Hard Time Telling My Parents That I'm Bisexual T.T, So I Don't Want Anyone To Suffer Their Parents Rage atau Dissapointment For Being Gay atau Les atau Even Striaght, Because Cinta Is Cinta And When You've Found THe One You've Found The One.
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Wow.....not sure what else i could add.....btw Cinta the pic!
Animeanimal posted hampir setahun yang lalu
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Thanks so much!! I came out to my friend earlier and everything went great :)
DibLuver25 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
Animeanimal said:
Be calm and honest and maybe start off saying something like : " i have something i would like to discuss with anda friend to friend and i dont want anda to judge it right away....

also.....tell them anda are nervous and scared about it and if they are REAL Friends they WONT abandon you......its tough but anda will find out who your Friends are. If anda were my friend and anda were a good person *not saying your not, I dont know anda XD* then i would stay with anda however anda were atau whatever anda did XD juss be proud of who anda are XD
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Thanks so much for answering!! I told her earlier and everything went great :)
DibLuver25 posted hampir setahun yang lalu
Part_of_the_sky said:
I haven't came out of the closet yet but here is what I would do if I was going to:

1) Give your parent/friends/ect some hints. Whether anda act like the opposite sex in a homosexual matter atau tunjuk that anda aren't interested in getting a mate of that gender. If they suspect then they will prepare themselves for the truth.

2) Find the closest person to anda and tell them. It works all the time. I told my sister who is very close to me about a secret of mine (not my sexuality) and she reacted maturely. As long as anda know that person enough to picture them not reacting negatively.

3) Right before anda tell your friends, make a big deal. Overreact and tell them it's very important. They will expect the worse and be relieved to find out that it's just that your gay.
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